How You Can Transform Your Relationship with Your Child in Just 10 Minutes a Day


Would it be worth 10 minutes of your time?

If not, don’t bother reading any further, because this letter is for parents who want to have a better relationship with their children and are willing to spend at least 10 minutes a day making it happen.

Do you find that, even though you want to stay calm......

  • Sometimes you lose your temper?
  • You yell at your child?
  • You feel stressed and you take it out on your child?

Are you frustrated because your children:

  • won’t listen to you?
  • won’t do their chores or follow household rules?
  • continually argue with you or with each other?
  • speak to you disrespectfully?
  • challenge you at every turn?

Or is your relationship good, but you feel that it could be SO MUCH MORE?

Are you ready for a change?

What would it mean to you if you could:

  • have more good times with your child?
  • communicate more effectively?
  • have a more peaceful relationship?



    "FEEL GOOD PARENTING IS WONDERFUL!

    Applying the attitudes and skills
    contained in this book
    will more than help people,
    it has the power to transform them.

    This book puts new parents on the right track
    and carries them through all successive stages.

    It would also be of great help to parents struggling
    with a child or teenager,
    where the bond between them is being strained.

    And everything between."

    Bill Walz, M.A., Clinical Psychology
    30 years of working with parents, children and teens
    10 years mediating child custody cases.




    IMAGINE you had a magic wand that you could wave over your children at any time that would sooth their upset, quiet their yelling and bring smiles to their faces.

    Would that excite you?

    Well, we don’t have a magic wand, but ….

    We have a powerful and simple method that will help you transform your relationship.

    Naturally, we all want our children:

    • to respect us.
    • to be well behaved.
    • to do chores and homework without complaining.
    • to make good decisions.
    • to talk to us and listen to us.
    • to be happy and self-reliant.

    Now, there’s an easy way for you to tap into the power of your own heart and then reach out to your child and open the door to communication and cooperation:

    • even if you and your child are not communicating now,
    • even if she comes home with a bad attitude,
    • even if he is disrespectful and uncooperative now.

    Do you want to know more?


    "I believe this book will help countless families.

    The approach is very realistic and workable,
    but one that is not talked about much.

    Others I've read were either "out of touch"
    with the real world or difficult
    to accomplish.

    It would have helped a lot if I had had this book
    29 years ago when my first son was born,
    and also when my boys were teenagers.

    I have already used some of the ideas in the book
    with my 4 year old grandson with great success.

    I provided college students to work as volunteer
    mentors in the Smart Choices Program.

    My students and I were all impressed with the
    positive results of the program.
    One student changed her major after seeing
    the difference she could make in the lives
    of troubled teens.

    I was inspired by the dedication and hard work
    of Pat and Larry
    Their hearts are HUGE!

    Lloyd Weinberg, Coordinator
    the Key Center for Service Learning
    UNC-Asheville, Asheville, NC




    We all want to feel good about our children and enjoy being with them.

    Then why isn’t it happening?

    Because something is missing - something so important that without it, nothing that we do with our children can fully succeed.


    What is that missing ESSENTIAL piece to transforming your relationship with your child?


    There are plenty of parenting books about strategies.

    Why do those strategies work some of the time but not most of the time?

    The reason is simple: As good as those strategies are, there is one very important piece that is missing - an essential piece.

    We will show you that missing piece.

    But first let us give you a little background:

    Work with teenagers:

    For many years, we worked with teenagers and their parents through the “Smart Choices” Program in Asheville, NC. With group sessions, one-on-one counseling and family mediations, we empowered the teens to create successful lives and helped families to communicate more effectively.

    Through our work with hundreds of families, we came to realize that, in order to help children and teens, the most important thing we can do is to help their parents learn to interact with them in a more effective way.

    In family mediations, we observed something AMAZING. No matter how sincere the parents words were, the success or failure of the mediation was determined in large part by the UNDERLYING ENERGY that they communicated without even realizing it.

    Their children responded to their ENERGY. When the parents were angry, the teens reacted with anger, and communication broke down.

    When the parents were calm and spoke from their hearts, the teens listened to them and they were able to discuss even difficult issues and reach agreement.

    We also conducted support groups for parents and many of them told us that they were frustrated because they felt stuck in their relationships with their children. No matter what they said, often their teens were not willing to listen and would not talk to them honestly.


    We found that in almost every case
    an essential element was missing.

    It was a feeling of connection between the parent and child. In many cases the parent’s emotional state pushed the teen away rather than inviting him to communicate.

    The Power of Connection:

    Do you remember how good you felt the first time you looked at your newborn baby? You may have been fascinated by the tiny fingers and toes, the smooth skin, the color of the eyes. As you looked in your baby's eyes, you may have sensed an immediate bond between the two of you.

    Do you remember the love that welled up within you?

    Something happened in that moment - something that went beyond the physical.

    Something within you reached out to meet something within your child, and in that moment you felt your oneness, a connection so profound that no words could describe it.

    Allow yourself to go back to that feeling.


    How would you like to take that feeling into
    every interaction with your child?

    How would you like to get back to that feeling of connection even when your relationship doesn't seem very good?

    We'll show you how you can.

    What would it mean to you if:

    • you could stay calm, no matter what your child was doing?
    • you could resolve disagreements with your child in a peaceful way?
    • your child listened to you and cooperated with you?
    • you and your child talked to each other in a respectful way?

    Would that make a difference in your home?


    "These practical, simple, suggestions
    may profoundly change
    your relationship with your child.

    Feel Good Parenting is mostly about who we are
    and what we bring into the relationship.

    Through practice, the concepts and exercises,
    beautifully written by Pat and Larry Downing,
    establish healthy habits that carry us through the
    more challenging times we may face in parenting.

    When we shift our reactions and patterns,
    these changes are reflected in a more loving
    relationship with ourselves and our children.

    The information in Feel Good Parenting can be
    useful for all relationships, not just parenting."

    Mary Hart, M.S.
    Co-founder and Exececutive Director,
    Child Spirit Institute
    Mother of two daughters.
    Mary has been employed as
    a university administrator,
    director and therapist in community mental health,
    a private therapist and consultant.




    Your emotional state is the
    most important factor
    in communicating ideas.


    Communication experts have determined that when we have a conversation, words account for only 7% of what is communicated. The other 93% comes from other factors such as our tone of voice, body language and the underlying, intuitive messages that are sent at levels not noticed by our conscious minds.

    93% of our message comes from the energy we bring into the conversation.

    Does that surprise you?

    If those non-verbal factors determine most of the impact you are having, then you can see how important it is to take control of your energy and what you are communicating without realizing it.

    But how?

    It’s really quite simple.

    You can tap into the powerful, positive feelings you already have for your child and bring those more effectively into all your interactions.


    Do you have ten minutes a day?


    That’s all it takes to change your emotional state and bring more positive, inviting energy to your relationship with your child.

    Feel Good Parenting will show you a simple, powerful, step-by-step method that takes only 10 minutes a day.

    It will unleash within you the power to transform your relationship and turn it into one that truly gives you and your child joy and easy communication and a true awareness of your deep, profound connection.


    Is your relationship with your child
    worth ten minutes of your time?


    Naturally we all love our children and we want the best for them. We all want our home to be a peaceful place.

    But sometimes we find ourselves being less than loving.

    If this is true for you, don’t beat yourself up.

    Being a parent is the most challenging job you will ever have. As parents, we have to learn on the job, so for most of us, it is a process of trial and error.

    As we are figuring out what works and what doesn’t, some of the things we do actually hurt the relationship instead of helping it.

    Why is that?

    Possible reasons might include:

    1.) As parents, we bring all the stresses from our daily life into our relationship with our children.

    2.) We want to make things better but we don’t know how.

    3.) Often we don’t have big enough goals.


    Let me tell you a true story:

    I had a friend when our children were little who just wanted to have peace and quiet in her house. Her kids were running around and out of control, and it was driving her crazy.

    So she fell for the seductive, hypnotic lure of the TV and let her children sit and be entertained for hours at a time.

    Did she achieve her goal?

    Sure.

    As a result, did she have a better relationship with her children?

    Of course not.


    What went wrong here?

    She hadn’t set her goal high enough.

    What if she had known how to discover what she REALLY wanted?

    What if she had known that she didn’t have to settle for less?


    Let’s say that this is what she TRULY wanted:

    • to have a satisfying, enjoyable relationship with her children.
    • to talk easily with them about anything.
    • to have them do their chores and homework without being nagged.

    That would have dramatically changed the way she interacted with them.


    What do you want for your family?

    Do you want your child to stop arguing with you?

    If he did, would that be enough?

    Or is there more that you want:

    • to feel loving, positive energy every time you are with your child?
    • to maintain those positive emotions even if your child is out of control?
    • to inspire your child in such a powerful way that he will be more peaceful and cooperative?



    Introducing Feel Good Parenting

    the ULTIMATE Method for Creating
    an Extraordinary Relationship with Your Child.


    Feel Good Parenting explains what has up until now been a great mystery to many parents :

    • how to break through the walls your kids have put up that have shut you out and
    • how to create open, respectful communication and harmony in your family.


    In Feel Good Parenting, you will also learn:

    • how to turn conflict into harmony in 3 easy steps.
    • how to feel good about yourself and your children more of the time.
    • how to be more peaceful and relaxed and help your children to do the same.
    • how to get your children to WANT to cooperate.
    • how to communicate with your children even when they will not listen.
    • how to get answers from them, even when they will not talk to you.
    • how to transform every situation with 4 powerful words.
    • and so much more.


    Are you ready to transform your family?

    What difference will that make to you and your children?

    When you bring Feel Good Parenting into your home, you can begin immediately to use these powerful techniques.

    The best gift you can give yourself and your family for the new year is a more relaxed, more effective YOU.




    But There Is More

    In addition to Feel Good Parenting, you will also receive the following gifts:


    1. Help Your Child Become a Happy, Responsible Adult,
    By Patricia and Larry Downing: This e-book explains 5 powerful ways parents can prepare their children to become responsible, capable adults, able to make good decisions for their own lives.

    2. The Secret Spiritual World of Children,
    by Tobin Hart: a peek into the stunning, often tender, and remarkable spiritual world that our children have kept largely secret. This is a chapter from Tobin's remarkable book.

    3. A Recipe for Listening, by Jane Wabnik: a lovely reminder of how to really hear the wonderful things our children - and others - have to tell us.

    4. Helping Your Children Develop Self-Discipline, by Etienne A. Gibbs: 14 Principles to help you help your children to do the right thing.

    In addition:

    You will also be joining the Feel Good Parenting Family. We are here for you if you have any questions or if you want more information.

    Our purpose is to create a forum for you and other parents:

    • to share ideas with each other,
    • to ask questions,
    • to get answers, and
    • to learn about a variety of topics from parenting experts.

The book comes with a:

100% money-back Guarantee

Bring Feel Good Parenting into your home today for only $29.95 and start immediately creating more peaceful, enjoyable relationships.

It is completely risk-free.

You may:

  • use the wonderful Feel Good Parenting method and all the parenting techniques for a year, and
  • receive all the benefits for yourself and your family.

If after that time, you feel that it has not helped you to create more peace and harmony in your home or to improve your relationship with your child, just let us know and we will quickly refund all of your money, no questions asked.

Feel Good Parenting -

the Ultimate Gift to Yourself and Your Family

You CAN experience a peaceful, satisfying relationship with your child.

From our hearts,

Pat and Larry Downing

P.S. We know that if you read this far, you REALLY care about your family.

You DO have within you everything you need to create the peaceful, joyful relationship you want to have with your child.

This book will take you through a simple step-by-step process to make that a reality in your family.

Do you want that now?